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you want "stress management" or "stress relief"? This
stress management topic reminds me of a story.
It's
about a traffic cop (let's call him Officer Stress) at the end of a
long shift. His post is a small, four-way stop in a small town. He's
scheduled to end his shift in a half an hour and it's been a very long
day. Suddenly, a bright red sports car with music blaring approaches
the intersection. Officer Stress sees the car slow, smoothly roll
through the stop sign, and dart off down the road. Well, rolling stops
just set Officer Stress' teeth right on edge, so he turns on his lights
and siren and takes off after the bright red sports car. It must have
been really good music and a really fast car, cause it takes our friend
Officer Stress a couple of miles to catch that scofflaw, but he finally
does. Stepping out of the patrol car, feeling quite in charge, he
saunters up to that bright red sports car and demands that the driver
step out of the car. No sooner does the driver open the door, but
Officer Stress grabs the driver by the collar and starts hitting him
with his night stick! The driver begs for mercy and pleads with Officer
Stress, "Why are you hitting me?" Officer Stress, slows for a bit and
asks the driver, "Son, did you see that stop sign back there?" "Well,
sure I did- I slowed down..." the driver says, hoping it's the right
answer. Officer Stress commences the beating even harder. "Son,"
Officer Stress yells, "here's a traffic lesson for you. Right this
minute, do you want me to slow down, or do you want me to stop?"
The problem with stress management is that you're managing the thing
you want to stop: STRESS.
Isn't the goal actually stress relief rather than stress management?
Or
even inner healing of some sort?
Why are you
managing stress when life has so much more to offer you, and you to
life?
Coping with stress
is optional. So why do it?
Here's the solution: use your power of intention,
the power of your subconscious mind, to heal stress overload.
Your spiritual life, your mind power, will be as
strong as your
conscious beliefs. If you consciously believe that you are a heart
attack waiting to happen, that you are an ulcer magnet, well, by golly,
we've identified your
first task.
Start telling yourself
something different. You
need new beliefs to back up the new messages you're going
to be telling yourself.
Where will this new belief come from?
Frequently,
others' experiences can light the way. If you've ever heard of someone
else healing stress overload through spiritual healing or energy
healing techniques, think often of those stories.
Your
subconscious mind will accept those stories as proof that you can heal
your condition, too.
Once you start looking for these stories – whether in magazines,
internet searches, or hearing them by chance – you will attract more
stories like them.
Like attracts like.
This
principle works like this: if you like a certain car, or gadget, or
whatever, and you want to buy this thing, suddenly you'll see it
everywhere!
The clarity you hold in your mind that
allowed for
this item to be created (after all, time isn't real, but that's another
article) in ways that are appealing to you activates the part of your
brain that says "oh, there it is!" Look, there it is again!" "Oh,
there's a red one!"
Ever play the punch
bug game
in the car when you were a kid? (If you don't know, that's the game
where you have to find VW Beetles and you get to hit your brother or
sister if you see one).
Kids love that game (for
obvious reasons) but it is a training tool for your brain-magnet.
So that game is what we're after now: activate your
brain-magnet by actively attracting stories of people who've
successfully integrated stress relief (or healing!) in their lives.
You
don't want stories of stress management (unless it's a stepping stone
in your ability to believe in total healing).
Anticipate
attracting stories of instant stress relief. They will come.
Now – you've started this spiritual brain transplant by attracting
stories.
Next, your job is to believe that this
can happen for you, too.
In this way, you'll begin your successful stress relief, and
you won't have to go the route of stress management at all!
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